When was the last time you did something romantic for your partner? Last week? Last year? Has it been so long that you can’t even remember? No matter your timeline, it’s time to spice things up!
Let’s be real. In today’s busy world, romance often gets ignored. Between hectic schedules, endless to-do lists, and the constant buzz of technology, it's all too easy for love and affection to take a backseat. However, romance shouldn’t be a once-every-year thing.
That's where we come in! We've rounded up 46 of the most romantic things to do as a couple. From everyday romance to grand gestures for him and her, these activities will help you connect and keep that spark alive.
ROMANTIC THINGS TO DO FOR HER
Whether you’ve been together for 2 weeks or 10 years, these thoughtful activities will show her how much you care.
1. Book a Couples Photoshoot
Say cheese and take home a gorgeous collection of professional photos of you and your boo! For an extra romantic touch, print out her favorite photo and give it to her in a beautiful frame.
2. Treat Her to a Massage or Spa Day
Your girl works hard. And that’s why spa days are one of the most romantic things you can do for her. Whether you choose a relaxing couples massage or a unique float session, she’ll enjoy an unforgettable day of pampering, all thanks to you.
3. Take a Dance Class (Or Dance at Home)
Dance classes are a super fun way to reconnect as a couple (even if you have two left feet). Get ready to twist, turn, and dip like never before. Plus, we bet you’ll share tons of laughs along the way. Not feeling a class? Show off your moves at home instead.
4. Go on a Luxury Picnic
There’s something truly romantic about an extravagant picnic. Just picture it: comfy pillows, a beautiful tablescape, charcuterie, and wine. Now that’s what we call a gourmet meal with a view!
5. Make Her Breakfast in Bed
This Saturday, it’s all about her. Get up early, sneak out of bed, and cook her a delicious breakfast. Then, gently wake her with a smooch before surprising her with your romantic meal. Bonus points if you bring her a steaming cup of coffee.
6. Learn How to Cook a New Dish
Grab a whisk, don your chef’s hat, and discover how to cook a delicious meal. You’ll both have so much fun as you mix together each ingredient and taste your delicious creation. Choose from pasta classes, sushi lessons, baking courses, and so much more.
7. Get a Little Crafty
If she’s a bit of a DIYer, don’t miss these hands-on art classes! Together, you’ll learn a new craft and take home a masterpiece that’s unique to you. Our top pick? We’re constantly daydreaming about these magical glassblowing classes.
8. Give Her All Her Favorite Treats
We’re talking coffee, chocolate, cookies, the works! Whatever she loves, give it to her (and maybe throw in a foot massage to top it all off).
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9. Send Her on a Scavenger Hunt
Take it from us, most women love a good scavenger hunt. Simply plan an epic date night but keep the final destination a secret. In order to get there, she’ll have to follow a series of clues. Send her to the location of your first date, first kiss, or even her go-to cafe. No time to plan? Check out these fun, app-led hunts.
ROMANTIC THINGS TO DO FOR HIM
Guys like romance too! Make him feel like a million bucks with these thoughtful, man-approved activities.
10. Go to a Sporting Event
Whether he loves basketball, football, baseball, or hockey, take him to see the home team (and make the seats extra good). If he’s not much of a sports fan, consider taking him to a concert or even a live comedy show. Whatever you do, you’ll both enjoy a night of exciting entertainment.
11. Crack Open a Cold One
Raise your glass to the best guy ever! During these unique beer tours, you’ll sample different brews, take brewery tours, and maybe even discover your new favorite beer together. Plus, they’re a fantastic way to toast to your love story.
12. Cook His Favorite Dish…
…But don’t tell him that you’re doing it! He’ll be so excited to come home to the mouthwatering aroma of his fav food. To make things extra romantic, go ahead and dim the lights, set the mood with a few candles, and pop open a bottle of sparkling wine.
13. Take a Spin in a Sports Car
A lot of guys love fast cars. So, why not treat him to a day in the driver’s seat? Take your pick from iconic, flashy rides including Lamborghinis, Ferraris, Porsches, and more. He’ll never forget the day you let him put the pedal to the metal!
14. Surprise Him at Work
Imagine his surprise when you show up on his lunch break, with delicious take out in hand. This simple gesture is sure to make him smile while brightening up both of your work days.
15. Dedicate a Karaoke Song to Him
Not only is this a romantic gesture, but it also shows off your fun and goofy side. Choose to sing his current favorite tune, or belt out a classic, sappy song. Personally, we’re feeling “Can't Take My Eyes Off You” by Frankie Valli.
16. Play His #1 Video Game
If he’s a gamer, then this might just be the key to his heart. Grab some snacks, a couple drinks, and offer to play a video game of his choice. Don’t worry if you’re a total newbie, he’ll have fun teaching you how to play like a pro.
FUN AND ROMANTIC THINGS TO DO
Romance for the young (and the young at heart). Get out, have fun, and keep that spark alive with these playful adventures.
17. Throw a Few Axes
While axe throwing might not be traditionally romantic, it’s a whole lot of fun. Besides, what could be more romantic than hanging out together, sharing a few laughs, and competing for the title of axe champ?
18. Play at Immersive Gamebox
Get ready for the most interactive gaming experience around. At Immersive Gamebox, you are the controller. Using advanced motion tracking and touchscreen technology, you’ll conquer fun challenges inside the world’s smartest gaming room!
19. Take a Tasty Tour
If you and your partner are self-proclaimed foodies, then booking a food tour is probably one of the most romantic things you can do. Together, you’ll sample some of the best dishes in town. Who knows? You might even discover your new favorite restaurant.
20. Visit a Rock Climbing Gym
Besides being a totally fun and ‘rock-mantic’ activity, climbing is also a great way to build trust. Whether you climb indoors or outside, you’ll both enjoy taking turns climbing up towering walls while the other belays. Trust us, there’s nothing quite like making it to the top!
21. Cover Each Other in Paint
Go ahead, get a little messy. During a splatter paint session, you’ll don protective gear before stepping inside a special studio. Then, get ready to flick and fling colorful paint onto blank canvases, the walls, and even each other!
22. Visit a Museum
Pick a museum that appeals to you both, whether it's natural history, art, or a mind-boggling museum of optical illusions. No matter what, you’ll have so much fun learning new things together.
ROMANTIC THINGS TO DO AT HOME
Who says you have to go out to enjoy a romantic date? Not us! These one-of-a-kind activities will bring you closer together, all from the comfort of home.
23. Try a Date Night Box
These date night boxes include everything you need for a romantic night at home – from interactive games to conversation starters, and even tasty snacks. Plus, there’s tons of fun themes to choose from including Adventure Together, That’s So 70s, and Italian Amore.
24. Embrace Your Inner Artists
Let your imagination run wild (without having to leave your living room) with an at-home craft kit. Create your own silicone mold candles, try your hand at paint pouring, or make up a batch of homemade bath bombs. The creative possibilities are endless!
25. Virtual Wine Tasting
You don’t have to visit a winery to taste delicious wine. With these virtual tastings and subscription boxes, you’ll sample some of the world’s best reds, whites, rosés, and more.
26. Movie Night…Of Their Choice!
Be honest, when was the last time you let them pick the movie? Tonight, let them choose whether it’s a chick-flick or another action movie. Make it extra special by popping popcorn, cuddling up under a blankie, or cracking open a few brews.
27. Hire a Private Chef
Imagine a 5-star dining experience…from your very own kitchen! Your private chef will handle everything from cooking to clean up, so you won’t have to lift a finger. Now that’s what we call a romantic evening at home.
28. Discover Each Other’s Love Language
How do you give and receive love? This simple test can teach you a lot about yourself and your partner. Trust us, knowing each other’s love language can be a relationship game changer.
ROMANTIC GRAND GESTURES
Go big with these grand romantic gestures, perfect for anniversaries, birthdays, Valentine’s Day, and more.
29. Float in a Hot Air Balloon
When it comes to romantic things to do, nothing quite compares to a hot air balloon ride. Just imagine the two of you floating across the sky in a rainbow-hued balloon. P.S. Some of these rides even include a champagne toast – it doesn’t get any more romantic than that!
30. Book a Weekend Getaway
Because sometimes, you just gotta get away. For the ultimate romantic stay, consider booking a dreamy B&B, a luxurious hotel and spa, or a stunning glamping retreat.
31. Indulge in a Gourmet Dinner for Two
Treat them to a night out, but make it fancy. Our advice? Take them to the best restaurant in town…and don’t just order the chicken. Here’s a list of some of our top spots.
32. Board a Sunset Cruise
Sure, sunsets are magical, but have you seen one from the deck of a sailboat? Just picture it: you and your sweetheart sailing across golden waves, enjoying the sun’s last warm rays before it sinks below the horizon.
33. Experience a Scenic Helicopter Tour
If you’ve never ridden in a helicopter, then it’s time to drop everything and take to the skies! Helicopter rides are completely surreal as you hover over iconic landmarks, stunning landscapes, and more. Plus, who doesn’t love a cute helicopter headset selfie?
34. Tick Something Off Their Bucket List
Have they always wanted to go on a whale watch? Learn how to fly a plane? Go skydiving? Whatever is on their bucket list, making their dream come true is easily one of the most romantic things you can do for your partner.
ROMANTIC THINGS TO DO OUTSIDE
The hills are alive with the sound of…romance! Enjoy some time together and create unforgettable memories in the great outdoors.
35. Try Horseback Riding
A true classic! Horseback riding is a great way to get outside, explore scenic trails, and interact with beautiful animals. Don’t forget to snap a few photos with your valiant steed!
36. Hike a New Trail
Get ready to explore nature, hand in hand. Whether you're trekking through the mountains or meandering along a tranquil meadow, hiking offers the perfect opportunity to disconnect from reality and reconnect with each other. Share stories, steal kisses, and enjoy a peaceful day together.
37. Stare at the Stars
There’s something so, so romantic about lying beneath a sea of stars. All you have to do is pack up the car, drive away from the city, and lay out a comfy blanket. To make things extra magical, consider planning your night around an annual meteor shower.
38. Rent Bicycles
Couples who bike together, stay together! With these rental packages, you can explore at your own pace. Plan a scenic route, bring along a tasty picnic for two, and pedal your way to romance.
39. Go Ziplining
Ziplining is the perfect blend of fun, adventure, and romance. Take your partner's hand as you leap into space and soar back down to solid ground. Just don't forget to enjoy the view!
40. Paddle in Perfect Harmony
Add a splash of excitement to your romance! Tandem kayaking is a great way to strengthen your teamwork, communication, and trust. With each synchronized paddle stroke, you'll feel a sense of unity and teamwork that's both exhilarating and romantic.
EVERYDAY ROMANTIC THINGS TO DO
Being romantic doesn’t have to be complicated. These small gestures can make a big impact and are easy to slip into your daily routine.
41. Write Each Other Love Notes
This one is especially fun if you and your partner have different schedules. If they go to bed before you do, put a love note on their nightstand. Does he pack his lunch every day? Drop in a cute note and tell him how handsome he is.
42. Create the Ultimate Playlist
Think of your top tunes and combine them into one epic playlist. Your personal ‘mixtape’ is perfect for road trips, at-home dance parties, or even just an afternoon of cleaning (but only if you belt out each tune using your mop handle as a microphone)!
43. Compliment Them
Don’t let a day go by without saying something nice to your partner. Some of our go-tos are “I’m proud of you”, “You’re beautiful”, and “Never change.”
44. Give Them a Few ‘Couple’s Coupons’
Couple’s coupons are a super fun and easy way to make them smile. Simply fill out small sheets of paper with customized coupons, just for them! Here’s a few ideas to help get you started: 1 free back massage, 1 free mystery date night, and 1 free romantic night away.
45. Hug It Out
Believe it or not, hugs are extremely powerful. This simple embrace can help boost happiness and overall well-being while simultaneously reducing stress. Plus, it’s an easy way to instantly connect with your partner – a true win-win!
46. Say “I love you”
This might seem like a no brainer, but that doesn’t make it any less important. Reminding them of your feelings can go a long way. Whether you say it out loud, send it in a text, or leave a note on their desk, those three little words never get old!
Summary
So there you have it, 46 of the most romantic things to do as a couple. From stargazing and love notes to outdoor adventures, sprinkling a little romance into your everyday routine has never been easier. Still searching for that perfect, romantic date? Visit Virgin Experience Gifts for even more swoon-worthy activities.
